To Make A Mess, Together

What does it mean to be in love?  To lose yourself?  To find yourself?  To be half of a whole?  To be in a blind bliss? 

Or is it all of those?

To fall in love means to lose your ego in order to completely engage into someone else.

To be in love means to find more of yourself in the other.

To love means to be responsible for yourself as well as for someone else, and knowing they have the same responsibility.

Love is a completely magnificent and uncanny perspective - you see everything different, yet see nothing at all at times.  But love is more than just a connection between two people, it is also a personal journey for those people as individuals. 

It's common to judge the success of a journy by its ending, but in this case, I think it's the wrong thing to do.




Take the unexpected situations in life by the handful, and realize how truly amazing they are.  See how sporadic decisions have led to amazing experiences.  And think about how much of a mess you could make, together.